Since I have started blogging I have noticed a few fellow bloggers write about how they sometimes will get the occasional "bad" comment. It might not be mean, it might not be rude, but it also might not be... well... helpful or nice. Which, in my opinion, why say something at all if you don't have something nice to say? We bloggers take a lot of time out of our day to document and post about what we love. (And most of the time we are doing it for FREE) It might appear to take just 5 minutes to whip out a post, but it doesn't. Thankfully all of my amazing followers here at The Blissful Bee have been so wonderful and I seriously can sit here and say I have not yet had ONE bad comment. But... venturing out and posting my projects on other websites {ones that will remain un-named} I have recently received a mean comment... And from what? My most recent post - my kitty litter box Hide-A-Way.

The first comment - not bad at all. The second comment - again, not too bad either. I'm a big girl - I can take a punch here and there. The third comment... well that just ticked me off. And sadly... as much as I wanted to be the "bigger blogger" and not comment back... as you can see, I did comment back. And well folks... I got snappy. The sarcastic smart alec in me came out and it got ugly. Yupp. I caved and wrote exactly what I thought at that exact moment in time. Maybe I shouldn't have, and I will probably feel bad about it in the morning, but it just really hurts when you throw yourself out there and get not just negative feedback, but rude and unnecessary feedback. Especially when they're talking about my sweet kitty as if she's some rabid animal! Oh, and also as if I don't clean my kitchen or something?? Look, I understand that the kitchen was not the ideal location for her new "home," but when you're given very limited options (aka no other options at all), then you gotta work with what you got. My sweet Bailey is completely worth it, and if I have to put her litter box in the corner of our kitchen, well then I'm fine with that. She has brought us so much joy and I couldn't imagine not having her as a part of our family.
And that is beside the point anyways - I will never understand comments like that. I understand that when you put your work out in the public, people can write what they want. I get that. I'm even risking that right now as I write this post. But why waste your time writing something borderline RUDE and just simply unnecessary?? Are they thinking I will all of a sudden learn from what they wrote and move the litter box into my imaginary spare "cat room" that I have lying around? No. I won't. Because if I had ANY other option at all, I would have taken it. Ok... getting riled up here again. Sorry guys! Deep breath!
{dramatic pause....}
Ok ok I'm good now. Anyways, now that I have vented a bit maybe I will feel better about negative comments. I guess it was bound to happen sometime! I just need to remind myself that for every negative comment, there are always 5 positive comments that go unwritten. I almost deleted my post on that {un-named} site because I was so mad/embarrassed, but I then saw how many people were reading the post and that a lot of people hopefully found it helpful. I mean, isn't that why we bloggers blog? To help our fellow DIYers??
Have any of you encountered negative comments? Do you get bothered by them as much as I did/do? Like I said before, constructive criticism is always good to have, but when does that cross over to just plain mean?
I sure hope everyone is having a wonderful week so far!! Minus my {bitter post} here tonight, my week has been wonderful. The new business is up and running, the new house is coming along wonderfully and I couldn't be happier! Also, you might have noticed The Blissful Bee got a little facelift this week. Hope you all are enjoying the new look:)